2010年8月23日星期一

Point of view of happiness

Legacies of feudal, traditional Chinese family values or the men, the women stay home. Men work outside to earn money, handling foreign affairs, women were cooking and cleaning, feeding future generations, housekeeping. Happy to count on a woman to a man's body (in addition to a strong woman outside).

Subconsciously, women want their husband to come out ahead. In the past, men have to become an official, a noble status; Now, men want to be the boss, there is a house and car. Shot to be generous, gestures to have style. But all things are divided into two. Man brought the family wealth to bring happiness and status of women, but also brought the crisis. Men, money, standing, and social interaction on the many, often out to eat, bathe, have no place to spend more money, will, weak Pu could deviant trouble (I said might, not absolute), things to the negative direction. A business premises, in the past is a decent man, the real estate industry booming in recent years, earned a lot of money. Also find out the three women, composed of four separate families, and have a child. However, he unfortunately had cancer. In the dying and four children to the hospital bed together, divide family property. At this point, four women have happy feelings?
The woman is a contradiction, all want to put too high a number of kites, but the more difficult to control the higher flight. Therefore, women unnecessary comparisons husband, who's husband money comparisons, comparisons of high office who's husband. Men have their own capability of success factors, but also luck. When looking for objects in the young, women can not predict the future trend of her husband's career, if not by the rich man's standard had to find, in later years would not again pushed higher and higher goals. Happiness is relative, not absolute, is not happy with the size of the house, there are no cars to be measured. The small house, every day between riding a bike, eating bread and water, feeling very sweet, is happiness. Another big house, cars to drive to, but two people are very arrogant, and do not compromise else gets, what happiness to speak of it. Therefore, women looking for an honest part of man, not necessarily a bad thing. Despite earning less, but reliable, do not worry flew away.

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